This is one of the most common things we discuss in puppy classes! It’s time to bust some myths and make sense of socialisation.
Puppy Socialisation is NOT greeting every human they see
Puppies need to learn that they won’t always get access to every person they see.
If we allow our puppies to meet everyone, they will end up struggling in those moments we need them to be neutral and calm.
Puppy Socialisation is NOT playing with every dog they see
One day they’ll meet a dog who doesn’t want to play. Puppies need to learn social manners and that life isn’t a free-for-all. A puppy who assumes every dog is safe and available for interaction can easily get themselves into trouble.
Puppies also need to learn to be neutral around other dogs, and their presence doesn’t automatically mean it’s time to play.
Puppy Socialisation is NOT letting them “work it out”
Sometimes dogs can work things out, but a lot of the time they can’t – especially when they’re puppies! It’s up to us to advocate for our dogs and step in to help.
Learning about play behaviour and stress signals will help you support your dog when they interact with others.
Puppy Socialisation is NOT flooding your puppy with experiences
Too much too soon can leave puppies over-tired, overwhelmed, and overstimulated.
Prioritise short, positive experiences with plenty of rest and recovery in between.
Puppy Socialisation is NOT pushing through it
Ignoring stress signals or assuming they’ll “just get over it” can create negative experiences — the exact opposite of what we’re trying to achieve. If your puppy is worried, create distance and let them observe calmly from a place where they feel safe.
What IS good puppy socialisation then?
Good puppy socialisation is about building confidence and emotional resilience — not overwhelming puppies with unlimited interactions and experiences.
Learn what good puppy socialisation actually looks like
Puppies who struggle with socialisation may need extra support.
At Urban Dogs HQ, we specialise in developmentally appropriate puppy training and socialisation. Reach out if you’d like some help.
UDHQ students can learn more in our Puppy Life Handbook, or join us in-person for puppy classes in Melbourne.
